This user has been bitten by a soft cat
You found my personal account! If you know me from formal or irl spaces, you probably shouldn't look in here. Proceed at your own risk.
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Clichéd transfem. Poly cuddle slut. Nonsexual little. Frequent meower. Kinky pervert. I pee myself a lot. I reject my own dignity.
I contribute code somewhere, but I forgot where.
I like to be referred to as "kitten" or "little one". You can do that if you want and it'll make me happy but it's not a requirement (also don't use the latter in adult contexts)
formerly @me@elizabeth.cat
"a pervert who lost control over their life"
Pronouns
they/them, although fem terms are also good
anyway, it happens all the time in tech, people take what are supposed to be just jokes and start treating them as truth and proper opinions
I also find it usually quite related to not having actual working experience with the thing that is being criticized
kink reflections
letting someone cause you physical pain is relatively easy compared to letting them play with you on an emotional level, even if it's done in a controlled way. but it is nonetheless something I embrace and want to offer to my Miss to use for her own pleasure as she sees fit.
kink reflections
I am already aware and have mentioned in the past the importance of valuing and telling my Miss about any of my desires.
I am however, on a more practical sense, learning about the importance of making clear and direct requests, instead of trying to hide them and relying on her own "instinct" to acknowledge them. this is not only because I should always try to communicate myself clearly, but also because otherwise I'd be robbing her of the possibility of dismissing them. if Miss wants to deny one of my asks, and maybe even humiliate me or make me feel ashamed for it, it is her right to do that, and I should not try to avoid it. I know she would only use that power having the best for me in mind.