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pathetic piss kitten @kitten@elizabeth.cat
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discussing pee and kink how can someone be angry at people having wetting kinks

it is one of the ones people are more ashamed about, and is barely discussed publicly because of it

but like

it's objectively innocuous. not that kink needs that to be deserving of respect, but seriously, being -angry- because some people like to piss themselves???
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Smolcasm @smolcasm@wetdry.world
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re: discussing pee and kink @kitten i can't speak for anyone else, but a long time ago, i used to trust my instinctive disgust response a lot more than i do today - i'd get angry at folks because they were innocuous, so earnest, in expressing what makes them happy

this is a very myopic and egotistical way to see things, but at that time, i perceived such things as personal affronts to me in particular - like, how dare someone harmlessly enjoy something that would make me thoroughly miserable if i were to try it? (gotta love sensory issues /s) i imagined there being an intense social pressure to normalize something i didn't want to be my normal, and even though that wasn't really the case - and even though i often bit my tongue - there were a few times i lashed out, and i deeply regret that, even long after the fact

idk. people are complicated. today, though, i take comfort in folks liking things i'd rather pass on - it's nice to think that everything, and everyone, has meaning to someone, and it's lovely to be able to experience something i wouldn't otherwise want to by proxy just from hearing straight from someone else's mouth how much joy it brings them. that, i think, is magical. sorry for the ramble neocat_laugh_sweat
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pathetic piss kitten @kitten@elizabeth.cat
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re: discussing pee and kink @smolcasm hm ​:neocat_think:​

that's an interesting perspective. I kinda get it, in a way
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Smolcasm @smolcasm@wetdry.world
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re: discussing pee and kink @kitten i love the feeling of being able to understand and appreciate a perspective i don't hold myself - at least, now i do. but i think folks can be real jerks about being given the opportunity to understand something if they don't particularly want to understand it
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