gender stuff, a bit negative but no big deal
everyone loves the cool-looking cute non-binary being, or the hot trans woman that will happily top you, except when it comes to actually empathizing with them and seeing them beyond something to "consume"
gender stuff, a bit negative but no big deal
when it comes to nonbinary people it's usually more of an aesthetics thing, but when it comes to transfem tops it really mixes up with the whole "forgetting it has to be fun for the top/dom too" deal