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pathetic piss kitten @kitten@elizabeth.cat
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re-reading my FetLife about and huh. I can tell being rigid and assertive is a big requirement there.
I prefer not to receive private messages. If you really feel the need to send me one, please do so, but keep in mind that it's a form of communication that I find very difficult, so it will probably take a long time for me to respond. If the message generally shows low effort, it will probably never be answered. So the safest bet if you want to tell me something is to do it with open comments on my content, that way we can all participate and benefit from the conversation.
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AliciaBytes @AliciaBytes@polycule.li
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@kitten Honestly, I struggle with DMs. I always second guess, question, and feel insecure about messages. Public conversations make it feel easier because I don't have to worry about a specific person.

At least until I meet people and then I'm usually fine with private messages too. Why am I like this insecure anxious mess though?
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pathetic piss kitten @kitten@elizabeth.cat
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@AliciaBytes for me it's more of a "I really need to thoroughly think what I'm going to answer" so they take a lot of time and effort
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