trans stuff@kitten people always want to hide in the anonymous masses rather than question their own involvement in an oppressive system. It’s like every single time my mother and I try to have a discussion about feminist issues with my supposedly liberal father - his priority immediately shifts to “not all men!” and arguing why treating all men as the oppressor is unjust. He needs that to distance himself from having to realize that he is very much part of the problem even though he doesn’t have bad intentions.
