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pathetic piss kitten @kitten@elizabeth.cat
1y
one of the downsides of meeting people irl is that I can't just click on them to open their profile and quickly check stuff like their pronouns and stuff

so, if we ever meet irl and see me refer to you with they/them when it's not what you use, very much assume that I just forgot the proper way to refer to you, and feel free to tell me
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~: Liera blobfoxcomfycofe @FamiliarDraco@evy.pet
1y
@kitten such a mood this. Have it wayy to often that I both forget someone's name or pronoun when I mostly but infrequently interact with them irl neofox_laugh_sweat
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Nicolewd @nicolewd@girlcock.club
1y
@kitten
Pah.. I had a date I met from okcupid yesterday.. and I just opened the app when she was doing something else for 10 secs to see if she was comfortable with talking about kinky stuff or if I should hold back..

I usually just tell people that I forgot or that they should always correct me.. or what other quirks my brain comes up with and that it has nothing to do with them 🙈
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pathetic piss kitten @kitten@elizabeth.cat
1y
@nicolewd that's also a good way, but it sometimes happens to me while I'm already in the middle of a sentence
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pathetic piss kitten @kitten@elizabeth.cat
1y
obviously this only happens with people I don't interact with that often so I didn't get to memorize it
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AliciaBytes @AliciaBytes@polycule.li
1y
@kitten Not to speak of remembering what being they are. Like could you wear your ears please? They look super cute and would make it easier for me to know if you're a cat or fox being neocat_pleading
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e @ember@blahaj.zone
1y
@kitten i do it the same way, but i've been yelled at before for doing that, i was expected to know the pronouns of someone i have never met or interacted with (how to immediately make me want it to stay that way if there isn't even a correction but just "stop misgendering" - i'm using neutral pronouns when i'm just not sure and until someone tells me).
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