Maybe I'm not the right person to ask. I wouldn't be happy to see someone's genitals in an avatar, but a pacifier? Honestly couldn't care less.
I get why people might be like "that's weird" but i don't get why it would be offensive, or even harmful.
Like, why is it ok to see a 2yr old suck on one but not a 20yr old (or whatever age)? What exactly has changed to make it harmful / non-good / offensive?
right now i think it looks adorable, but i'm sure if i'm in an anxious mood it might also be a trigger for me, but i dont want to entitle myself to impose limits on others about it