When people mistake me for AMAB Transfem, I get really flattered. I never ever take offense to this though. I'm afab nb, but I always wish that I was amab nb with little feminine flairs here and there.
some of you really have zero tact and a huge ability to make transfems very uncomfortable
transmisogyny-adjacent@kitten I'll take people being weirdly pedestal-y about people like me rather than treating us like we're unsafe or The Wrong Kind of Enby for being AMAB. but I'd rather have to deal with neither