a bit meta on "meanness" and public perceptionas someone who has dedicated her own public image to a highly unconventional dynamic with one of her friends, I know that embarking on a journey to shape your public perception in such an affirming and unconventional way requires a lot of courage - let alone uncovering for yourself that this is the way you want to be perceived - and I'm so proud of and happy for this slightly damp little kitten to have found their place of blushy happiness