sex, hot take, but the kind that might actually be helpful
sometimes it's off-putting the way some beings are just interested in being fucked without any other regard, rather than in fucking with someone else. being someone's fuck toy can be fun, but that's not really how it usually works.of course everyone has their own sexuality and their own way of enjoying it. but you know, it's also common for this kind of experiences from people who top to be kinda dismissed.