kink, wholesomeIt’s funny how even “I’ve been thinking about [very detailed, harsh and cruel kink fantasy]” turns into a very affectionate and wholesome emotional conversation every single time
kink, more detailed, wholesomeGet yourself someone who will reply to “I want to chain you to my bathtub, throw buckets of water on you, put you in as much pain as you can bear, piss on you, turn off the light, lock the door and leave you there” with “I would love that, this feels very adequate” and warm conversations about care and affection in relation to hard kink. I mean, get yourself someone like that if you desire doing something like this to someone, of course