discussing kink & societyI wish it wasn't so common for people to feel so extremely ashamed of their own kink and sexuality that they feel the need to keep it as their deepest secret, even with the people they are close to.
discussing kink & societysometimes I read stuff from people in that situation and it's a big "coming out of my bubble" moment where I remember that's a common situation, and that mine isn't
discussing kink & society@kitten i don't think i have that much shame on that, but i don't talk about it as it doesn't come as a topic or anything; people also tend to have a stick in the ass that said, i never wore a collar when seeing my family
discussing kink & society@hypha at some point in my life kink just started becoming another part of my everyday life, and sometimes it does make for awkward situations, because I accepted that it's not viable or healthy to try to hide my everyday self :neocat_laugh_sweat:
discussing kink & society@kitten that's a fair and honest approach maybe i will accept this too yesterday i went out with my collar and i wasn't used to it any more, but felt nice (there was only one guy staring at me while we passed each other and said something once passed me)
Even around people I know are aware and enthusiastic about my kinks I have trouble sharing sometimes, and it makes me feel ridiculous, but the more I fight it the easier it gets.
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