I like having an online presence where I show some of the more intense and "fancy-looking" aspects of my kink, but also the more comfy, modest, "everyday" parts of it.
beyond anything else, I want to be genuine, and avoid making beings feel like I'm living some kind of artificial influencer-style "perfect life"
discussing social dynamics
I must say one of the things that feels weird in that regard is how (apparently) I've reached the point of being classified as a "micro-celebrity" by some due to being fairly usually recognized for my content here.
and on one side I like it, because, for instance, it feels good and affirming to be already perceived the way I show myself here by new beings I've just met (who happened to have already interacted with my posts). it feels weird, but it feels good.
but on the other, I don't want that kind of "separation" from the rest of people it kinda creates. I'm just another being posting random stuff, like everyone else does.