discussing kink and roles
I am submissive, quite submissive, and, at least right now, I don't use the label "Dominant". which might sound kinda weird seeing posts like the ones I wrote yesterday. I like topping, I like inflicting pain, and sometimes I enjoy toying with other subs (how not to
). I just don't let labels constrain me.the thing is... even considering those things, I don't really feel as a dominant in spirit, beyond actions I might perform. I am very service oriented. very. I thrive on obedience, and on focusing on my counterpart's satisfaction, not just for their satisfaction itself, but for all the meaning it carries with it. and with time I just realize more and more how important of a thing all of it is for me.
maybe one day comes where life brings me to a place where I embrace being a dominant. I wouldn't reject it a bit. but I don't think it is where I am right now.