dealing with mistakes
@lis meow... sometimes it is difficult to properly express this kind of things. but I guess at the end it's just a matter of... things that we didn't desire happened, we acknowledge it, and handled it the best way we couldI will add that this is part of the risks I accept when I engage in the kind of things that we do. I know at times we'll accidentally get hurt in ways we don't desire, or that things might sometimes not go the way we plan. I would never ask of anyone to be able to avoid that. both because I don't think it's realistic, and because I think it'd make everything more dangerous than it already is.
I don't want to play with whoever promises me that they won't make mistakes, but with whom I feel whenever that happens they'll be able to handle it in a way where we can heal, learn from that experience, and move on without feeling less confident in each other.
so... I agree... it's something very rarely seen discussed, and I wish it was more visible. mistakes happen, and healing should be the focus of handling them.