@kitten It can be hit or miss. Especially since a lot of "kinky" events are just dance partys with less clothes. But most of the time I would consider those clothes just street wear.
The good stuff is niche or even invite only.
And for selfish reasons the answer is just yes. 😊
@kitten Also, I forgot to mention that the best ones are based on groups you build up yourself, but that requires a massive amount of effort and a dedication.
But maybe you will find people who already have play rooms in their house 😊