discussing lewd potential planson one hand I want to, but on the other, it feels like not the best setup if things don't work out (not necessarily go wrong, just, you know, the mood isn't there), since it'd be just a small enclosed space to share
re: discussing lewd potential plans@kitten there is indeed not an easy way to back out there. so, everyone that wants to take part has to be really sure about it.
re: discussing lewd potential plans@navi yep, exactly. maybe the kind of thing that one would do mostly with people who they have been involved with before
re: discussing lewd potential plans@dpk@navi I mean, I wouldn't want that. if someone ends up not wanting to, not even just watch, I'd expect everyone to respect that. but it could inevitably lead to other participants feeling frustrated and sad, considering how the whole thing would involve planning and travel that ends up being "for nothing"
re: discussing lewd potential plans@kitten@navi@dpk I may be missing some context here (thread seems to reference some idea brought up elsewhere?) but from what I can infer here, I'd definitely be the kind of person who would be sad if something like this turned out to be nothing, but wouldn't be bothered by other creatures doing their thing if I weren't in the mood myself. I wonder if that's maybe the "axis to match" across all creatures participating, whether they'd be unhappy if nothing happened vs. unhappy if something happened right next to them?
re: discussing lewd potential plans@kitten@navi@dpk Yeah. I think it could probably work only if there's a very clear shared understanding of the expectations and boundaries involved.