To the extent you can separate the two, which is more important and meaningful for you personally?
(if you do not do kink or you do not do sex, this poll is not for you. please don’t answer it unless you are at least interested in both)
@dpk I'd be just sad and joyless without kink in my life, so I voted that
that being said, I am starting to reconsider my definition of sex in a way that includes most, if not all, of my kink