pathetic piss kitten (@kitten)

pathetic piss kitten @kitten@elizabeth.cat

lewd-adjacent, asking for experiences

I wonder

I know this might be a weird question and the answer would probably just be "I just tell them and either ask for privacy or not". it's what I would do at least. but... you know, it's a situation I've never been in, so...

how do people living with their partners who don't have their own room usually do to masturbate when they need to?

rachael @rachaelspooky@cyberpunk.lol

re: lewd-adjacent, asking for experiences

@kitten i usually just do it in an unoccupied room so i dont wake them (our sleep schedules are nearly inverted from each other) and if they walk in on me it's chill

nightscy @nightscy@kinkycats.org

masturbation, re: lewd-adjacent, asking for experiences

@kitten (I've been reading this post with "parents" instead of "partners" multiple times and was about to answer accordingly, but thankfully I caught it beforehand …)

Yep, "ask them" would probably be my response, and depending on the situation they might (be allowed to) join in or not.

If asking is not an option … On the loo? In the shower? Or when the partners are not at home?

Still, hiding it doesn't feel like a healthy thing to do.

pathetic piss kitten @kitten@elizabeth.cat

lewd-adjacent, asking for experiences

(I guess it's not hard to tell that I indeed used to struggle with communicating my desires and needs in the past?)

Maaike 🔜 eth0 @ayke@blahaj.social

lewd-adjacent, asking for experiences

@kitten I still find it difficult to ask for this! But yeah, I'd probably just ask if it's okay.

LilaHexe @LilaHexe@fedi.lilahexe.top

lewd-adjacent, asking for experiences

@kitten I go to the bedroom and masturbate.

If my partner is there, I ask first if it's ok.

If it's late and they're asleep, I masturbate in the living room

lia

@lianna@micro.webgarden.click

lewd-adjacent, asking for experiences

@kitten I can't contribute anything relevant about myself, but I know that a lot of cishet people view it as "cheating" or are insulted by the idea of their partner touching themselves … many people therefore try to hide it.

pathetic piss kitten @kitten@elizabeth.cat

lewd-adjacent, asking for experiences

@lianna true.....🫣