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27 Clichéd transfem. Poly cuddle slut. Nonsexual little. Frequent meower. Kinky pervert. I pee myself a lot. I reject my own dignity.
I contribute code somewhere, but I forgot where.
I like to be referred to as "kitten" or "little one". You can do that if you want and it'll make me happy but it's not a requirement (also don't use the latter in adult contexts)
formerly @me@elizabeth.cat
"a pervert who lost control over their life"
Location
Europe
Birthday
1999-03-02
Pronouns
they/them (EN)
Pronounsthey/them, although fem terms are also good
dealing with mistakes@lis meow... sometimes it is difficult to properly express this kind of things. but I guess at the end it's just a matter of... things that we didn't desire happened, we acknowledge it, and handled it the best way we could
I will add that this is part of the risks I accept when I engage in the kind of things that we do. I know at times we'll accidentally get hurt in ways we don't desire, or that things might sometimes not go the way we plan. I would never ask of anyone to be able to avoid that. both because I don't think it's realistic, and because I think it'd make everything more dangerous than it already is.
I don't want to play with whoever promises me that they won't make mistakes, but with whom I feel whenever that happens they'll be able to handle it in a way where we can heal, learn from that experience, and move on without feeling less confident in each other.
so... I agree... it's something very rarely seen discussed, and I wish it was more visible. mistakes happen, and healing should be the focus of handling them.
diapers, discussingI've never commented on it because I see it as common sense, but sometimes that's the least common of senses so:
- please don't assume everyone who wears diapers likes to be humiliated for it - please don't assume everyone who wears diapers is kinky about it - please don't assume everyone who is kinky about diapers doesn't also maybe need them medically
it feels good when the sadness over missing someone is surpassed by the happiness brought by understanding just how much they mean to you to be able to feel that
people should accept me going to remove these with some bolt cutters, because it would be a nice and meaningful expression of affection to my partners, since I want them to be able to enjoy clean¹ places
