@kitten also every noun is gendered and stuff like occupations use different words depending on gender, like actor/actress in english
There are a few differnt approaches to deal with this, a common one is to turn nouns into a prticiple form e.g. "Studenten/Studentinnen" becomes "Studierende". This doesn't work for everything. Another approach is to use a * or _ like Student*innen, which can be harder to use in spoken word but works almost everywhere. The last one is pretty cool but it hasn't found widespread use yet, it's to put a y at the end of the root of the word, "Student/Studentin" becomes "Studenty"
@kitten (is it obvious that it got confronted with/started thinking about this stuff in university, considering that it's using "(university) student" as an example word?)
@kitten That is the textbook version, yes („generisches Maskulinum“).
An increasingly used (and hated by conservatives & those further right) solution is to connect the base form and gendered ending with an asterisk, e.g. „Ingenieur*in“ (engineer). There are other variants, but so far none has become broad consensus and standard language yet.
Some people use that for pronouns, too („ein*e“), and there's the option of phrasing things to mostly avoid pronouns.
@airtower@kitten in many cases you can avoid gendered language with a bit of skill, but that takes effort even for native speakers and often relies on neutral plural forms (you can say “Studierende” - derived from the verb studieren, “those who study” - instead of “Studenten” (generic masculine plural) or “Student*innen”)
@airtower@kitten this particular approach only avoids the generic masculine plural for mixed groups, it doesn’t work for a single person of undetermined gender
@airtower@kitten there is also a very light-hearted approach popularized years ago by an Austrian artist, writer, and gay rights activist who became famous with kink-centered performance art: using -y. So instead of Präsident or Präsidentin, it would be Präsidenty, Ärzty, Autofahry. That also works for singular forms, but it's a bit silly and rather uncommon^^
@airtower@lis@kitten unfortunately the German-speaking world is currently flooded with the entire political right trying to ban gender-neutral language under the premise of “free speech”, so the necessary processes to find a social consensus on how to solve this issue won’t take place any time soon
@lis@kitten I'd say those bans (or attempts) are an attempt to stop the already ongoing process, but yes, it'll probably take a while to reach something resembling consensus…
there is also the even less formal option used in some bubbles — replacing the suffix with y: Ärzty, Ingenieury, Kollegy, …
And of course one could try to use/find (formally correct) neutral forms, even if that can be difficult sometimes (and often takes the path of describing a role or what a person is doing, which can bring other problems): Lehrkraft, Studierende, Fahrgast, Mitarbeitende, …
@airtower@kitten es gibt Leute die es für sich verwenden aber auch sehr viele die es als Alternative für er und sie ablehnen
es gibt eine Vielzahl unterschiedlich verbreiteter dt. Neopronomen, die ersten sind um 2009 aufgetaucht, was Medien angeht sind derzeit xier/xies, dey/deren, sier/sies und als Anglizismus they/their am häufigsten (hab Beispiele und Links falls wer will)