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pathetic piss kitten @kitten@elizabeth.cat
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poly stuff, mentions sex stuff speaking with monogamous people is usually awkward because:
- they'll always end up jumping to the group sex topic
- they won't be able to assimilate that it's just. like. it might be a big deal for them, but not that much for me
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pathetic piss kitten @kitten@elizabeth.cat
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poly stuff, mentions sex stuff in both directions btw. they will always jump to assume that I'm participating in threesomes every week, while also won't understand that like: yeah, orgies are cool, but like, I don't fixate on them. it's just something I can do and happens sometimes.
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pathetic piss kitten @kitten@elizabeth.cat
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poly stuff, mentions sex stuff btw I didn't tell the background on this

I told my work colleagues that I'm poly!

and yeah apart from the usual clichés that monogamous people can't help, they were cool

one of them now says that "I'm her guru, and that from now on she'll always try to think «what would Elizabeth do in this situation?»"
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pathetic piss kitten @kitten@elizabeth.cat
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poly stuff, mentions sex stuff (that's another of the awkward reactions I get sometimes. hey I'm not a super-person, I'm not doing anything "unique" or "beyond the bounds of possibility". I get it sounds extraordinary, but that's only because you hadn't considered it before)

although in my past job one of my colleagues told me that "it's as if was trying to transcend humanity" because of the trans + poly + eating shakes combo and that did sound rad af
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rachael rachael rachael rachael @rachaelspooky@cyberpunk.lol
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re: poly stuff, mentions sex stuff @kitten i forgot you did the shakes thing lmao. it sounds wild at first but i eat the same bean slop every day, it's not really that different
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Èlia 🌸🦊 @guineu_roja@tech.lgbt
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poly stuff, mentions sex stuff @kitten the last part is goals honestly
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pathetic piss kitten @kitten@elizabeth.cat
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poly stuff, mentions sex stuff @guineu_roja ​:blobcatgiggle:​
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Lis (≙) retired account @lis@luisa.is
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poly stuff, mentions sex stuff @guineu_roja @kitten careful, that can escalate pretty quickly^^ blobcatgiggle
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Alba 🌸 v_pat @mildsunrise@tech.lgbt
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re: poly stuff, mentions sex stuff @kitten yay, finally!
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Efi (nap pet) 🦊💤 @efi@chitter.xyz
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poly stuff, mentions sex stuff @kitten hopefully that includes syndicalist resistance
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Lis (≙) retired account @lis@luisa.is
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poly stuff, mentions sex stuff @kitten ugh. “thank you for reducing my partnership model down to your horniness”
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Luna R @lunarood@mastodon.gamedev.place
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RE: poly stuff, mentions sex stuff @kitten even with other queer people? If so, that's pretty disappointing... I thought we were past that, considering we've all experienced how cishet people like to jump onto "the sex topic" when faced with queerness more generally.
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pathetic piss kitten @kitten@elizabeth.cat
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RE: poly stuff, mentions sex stuff @lunarood oh, no no, these were cis-straight people

(although to be honest I don't know much
queer monogamous people)
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Luna R @lunarood@mastodon.gamedev.place
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RE: poly stuff, mentions sex stuff @kitten ah yeah, I see

I'm queer monogamous people, I guess. I think the difference is that cishet people make it a whole "thing".

But it's fascinating to me that they go straight to sex... as far as someone might have "curiosity" I'd think the social dynamics are a much more interesting aspect than sex!

I guess it just goes back to how sexually repressed a lot of cishet people are, which perhaps makes them obsessively fixate on this aspect.
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