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pathetic piss kitten @kitten@elizabeth.cat
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poly stuff, mentions sex stuff speaking with monogamous people is usually awkward because:
- they'll always end up jumping to the group sex topic
- they won't be able to assimilate that it's just. like. it might be a big deal for them, but not that much for me
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Luna R @lunarood@mastodon.gamedev.place
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RE: poly stuff, mentions sex stuff @kitten even with other queer people? If so, that's pretty disappointing... I thought we were past that, considering we've all experienced how cishet people like to jump onto "the sex topic" when faced with queerness more generally.
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pathetic piss kitten @kitten@elizabeth.cat
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RE: poly stuff, mentions sex stuff @lunarood oh, no no, these were cis-straight people

(although to be honest I don't know much
queer monogamous people)
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Luna R @lunarood@mastodon.gamedev.place
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RE: poly stuff, mentions sex stuff @kitten ah yeah, I see

I'm queer monogamous people, I guess. I think the difference is that cishet people make it a whole "thing".

But it's fascinating to me that they go straight to sex... as far as someone might have "curiosity" I'd think the social dynamics are a much more interesting aspect than sex!

I guess it just goes back to how sexually repressed a lot of cishet people are, which perhaps makes them obsessively fixate on this aspect.
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