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pathetic piss kitten @kitten@elizabeth.cat
1y
lewd-related I always wonder how people think this stuff actually works or looks like, and I must say receiving emails about orgies brings a very nice aura to it
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pathetic piss kitten @kitten@elizabeth.cat
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lewd-related I'd imagine someone out of the scene would see it and be like:
-what's that?
+oh, it's about a sex party
-...you receive emails about sex parties?
+yeah, sometimes
-...
+...
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pathetic piss kitten @kitten@elizabeth.cat
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lewd-related this also makes me think about how people more out of it don't realize how most kink parties and stuff are like, businesses

I remember something years ago about how "an orgy with some really VIP people got raided by the police because of a tip-off by a competing group" and people were like "what do you mean competing group???"

and it's like....yeah this is a business. the people who organize that stuff usually sells entry tickets along with drinks and stuff. they want to make money. and thus they want to have the best dates, the best spaces, the cooler guests, etc. compared to the other events in that place.
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pathetic piss kitten @kitten@elizabeth.cat
1y
lewd-related (the sad part of this stuff. when sex meets capitalism)
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Luna Dragofelis ΘΔ 🏳️‍⚧️ & @LunaDragofelis@em.erge.to
1y
lewd-related @kitten oh, the dream of anarcho-communist orgies…
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ity [unit X-69] - VIOLENT FUCK @ity@estradiol.city
1y
lewd-related @kitten wtf lmao
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Mae Gray @weaknotgivingin@thicc.horse
1y
lewd-related @kitten Hmm now I kinda wonder if I'm kinda lucky because where I live most of the things are pretty grass-roots, at most rentals of community halls supported by a modest cover and no drinking allowed, while the more business-y ones are specifically at like swinger or strip clubs and don't happen frequently enough to have big conflicts like that.

Maybe because I live in a pretty medium city? Or North America vs Europe difference? Or I just don't get invited to the cool stuff lol
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Sinnamon (despicable arc 😈) @cinnamon@mk.absturztau.be
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lewd-related @kitten And how it's supposed to work from the point of view of the individual? Does one just go to Google, look for "bdsm events", have a look at the different websites offering event listing, pays the ticket, appears there alone without knowing anybody and that's it?

What if one is just old, and ugly, and a person nobody is actually interested in?

Asking for my other self in a diferent life timeline. That one who took different life choices ~23 years ago and would nowadays be a completely different person from me. I'd like to meet her and have a chat while we have a coffee, tbh.

EDIT: The questions and reflections in is post were honest, btw, in case it wasn't clear. But probably outsiders don't deserve an answer. shrugz
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e @ember@blahaj.zone
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lewd-related @kitten i also received an email about a certain sex party. but i am afraid i can't come because i have no clue how to get there and where to sleep
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e @ember@blahaj.zone
1y
lewd-related @kitten not all hope is lost yet. i am expecting a payment that should be sufficient, i just hope it arrives in time...
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pathetic piss kitten @kitten@elizabeth.cat
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lewd-related @ember oh... ​:neocat_sad:​ sad to hear that...
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LilaHexe @LilaHexe@fedi.lilahexe.top
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lewd-related @ember @kitten :(
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