lewd-related
this also makes me think about how people more out of it don't realize how most kink parties and stuff are like, businesses
I remember something years ago about how "an orgy with some really VIP people got raided by the police because of a tip-off by a competing group" and people were like "what do you mean competing group???"
and it's like....yeah this is a business. the people who organize that stuff usually sells entry tickets along with drinks and stuff. they want to make money. and thus they want to have the best dates, the best spaces, the cooler guests, etc. compared to the other events in that place.