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pathetic piss kitten @kitten@elizabeth.cat
1y
hacker events discourse, hot take there's a lot of "drama" associated to these kind of events and in a way it's legitimate, issues and mistakes should be pointed out and discussed (and some are less excusable)

but I also see some general negativity and cynicism that just... feels plain unhealthy, and not really constructive

there were fuck-ups at WHY. responsibilities should be taken and it should be prevented in the future. but still, I loved the event, I had a super nice time, and I'm super happy to have decided to come here.

I saw and heard some similar stuff regarding the FLINTA cruising from last weekend, and I feel exactly the same, with the difference that in there I can't even think of any actual issues (also, in that case it was sometimes coated in a layer of slutshaming that some people should really work on).
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LilaHexe @LilaHexe@fedi.lilahexe.top
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@kitten it's a shame really, because I believe some of it is genuinely valuable feedback.

But because it's all subposts (I assume?) I don't see any of it :(

So uhhhh got feedback for the FLINTA Cruising? Is there a specific reason you didn't want to attend, that could be changed?

Please feel free to directly let me know! I might not be able to incorporate the feedback (some of it is contradictory), but more data points are always appreciated!
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pathetic piss kitten @kitten@elizabeth.cat
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@LilaHexe oh, I might have expressed myself incorrectly. what part hints that I might have not wanted to attend? I did right from the beginning, and even changed plans to be able to come ​:neocat_laugh_sweat:​

with "I feel exactly the same" I was referring to "I loved the event, I had a super nice time, and I'm super happy to have decided to come here". as I said, I didn't notice any issues.
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LilaHexe @LilaHexe@fedi.lilahexe.top
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@kitten ohhhh yeah the "you" was referring to a potential reader who had subposted about the flinta cruising, not @kitten specifically
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pathetic piss kitten @kitten@elizabeth.cat
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@LilaHexe ohhh, understood
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