trans stuff
I guess the key concept that sometimes is not considered here is: you're the edge case.
you can be very nice and kind to your trans friends. but the thing is, every day, every single other person we have to interact with, makes us feel a little bit more disconnected from cis people.
I'm not even talking about those interactions involving hate or bigotry. but most of them do usually include something that will remind us how most people find it extremely difficult to empathize with us, with our lives, with our experiences.
every day, every person we meet.
it's difficult.