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pathetic piss kitten @kitten@elizabeth.cat
12mo
should I really keep wishing happy birthday to not that close relatives?
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pathetic piss kitten @kitten@elizabeth.cat
12mo
both Christmas and birthdays are the things I feel the most fake in social interaction

like, okay, it's true that for starters I don't care about my birthday, but we've not talked in the whole year, why are you calling me to wish me a happy birthday?
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Ellis @ellis@transfem.social
12mo
@kitten i wish it if i want to make someone a bit more happy but i don't do it if it is only because they expect it. the same with gifts. (also i tend to not wait for a birthday to gift someone something, i just do it and if i have on the birthday nothing i want to gift i just don't do it.)
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minwlfNotice flori_ava_star~cursor_blinking @star@amazonawaws.com
12mo
@kitten I get that a lot. It seems like a pointless chore to me. It doesn't spark joy, so I got rid of it
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minwlfNotice flori_ava_star~cursor_blinking @star@amazonawaws.com
12mo
emotional abuse, I guess? @kitten (read following quote from perspective of any of my family members) "But Ava they are family"; yeah I am personally done with being taken hostage emotionally. I get to do what I want now.
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amrtf đŸŗī¸â€âš§ī¸ @amrtf@social.amr.tf
12mo
@kitten And also someone's saints day
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pathetic piss kitten @kitten@elizabeth.cat
12mo
@amrtf oh my god ​:blobwtfnotlikethis:​
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AliciaBytes @AliciaBytes@polycule.li
12mo
@kitten I've stopped the happy birthday and merry Christmas wishes quite a while ago for people where I'm not close and it was just an obligation anymore because we were "family". Especially because with some I don't get along for important reasons.

But also I'm a person who doesn't care much about birthdays/holidays and told people to never call on my birthday because I don't like it and it's just a normal day and I don't want anything happening there. (I still sometimes get letters or something but no calls now)
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Perry (will be at GPN) đŸĻ†đŸĻĢđŸĨš @perry@mk.absturztau.be
12mo
@kitten I don't do that either. I don't even know the birthdays of anyone besides my siblings, my parents and my girlfriend.
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