kinkI wish people in general were able to realize just how much comfort my collar and its attachments and the dynamics they represent give me, instead of jumping to sexual conclusions so quickly
@kitten removing kink cw because i don't think this is kink.
for me it's sensory too. I like my collar tight around my neck (of course i can always fit two fingers through so not tight enough to choke me). It's a choker. the leather of my collar feels nice on my neck. i wish i could wear it without constantly worrying about what other people think of me. am i gonna be accused of doing a kink thing? am i going to be shamed? etc
@kitten to me, I don't have an association with my collar as marking me "owned" or whatever, it's more the feeling of being able to express myself alongside the tactile feedback