How do you pack for a trip where you don’t really expect anything particular to happen but wouldn’t want anything that might happen to be prevented by a lack of preparedness
piss, dysphoria@kitten idk, I’m thinking about things like my leather skirt just to have the option to at least try the probably least dysphoria-inducing way of wetting your pants from the outside You know, I don’t want to fall for the “I don’t know what will happen so I will make ‘nothing is going to happen’ a self-fulfilling prophecy” fallacy
piss, dysphoria@lis let's do something: bring the stuff you're thinking about. stuff that enables anything you might have fantasized about.
I will still have no expectations about anything happening while you're here, you don't need to worry about that. but I do find appealing you having the constant thought of "okay this is actually something that can happen :neocat_blush_hide:", so, if you concede me that, I'd appreciate it very much.
you can also explain to me some more of those ideas of yours, and show me what did they motivate you to bring with you, if you want.
with regards to the "having nothing happen as a self-fulfilled prophecy" thing... I can't be pushing you to anything happening of course. but we can discuss it. I do desire things to happen (in case it wasn't clear) and can be more vocal about it if that'd help. but yeah, I'm also perfectly okay with going slowly, and would enjoy my time with you anyway :neocat_hug:
piss, dysphoria@kitten you know, it’s nice to read all of this and feel like it wouldn’t have necessarily had to be said (even though it’s definitely good to say it out loud), because all of this was already the essence of what I took away from all of our previous interactions and conversations
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