pathetic piss kitten (@kitten)

discussing work and kink stuff

and it's nice that my current circumstances don't cause me any trouble regarding that

tbh I noticed how... people tend to overcompensate and go the opposite way as it actually is with it

. one day we were commenting about dress codes and stuff and I mentioned how I sometimes wonder if anyone would see my collar as inappropriate, and a colleague answered like, "ah, you mean because they'd think is some kind of bdsm thing, right".

I didn't say anything at the time, but I was left with the thought of actually saying "nono, it is a kinky thing. and I consider that okay."