like, I get it's weird even in the context of kink. but is it really that complex to grasp? everyone is always like "what‽" and I'm like "it just made sense from the start in my mind :neocat_melt_3:"
discussing kink@kitten I have to admit that this is one of the few "why would you do this to yourself" things in the context of our relationship, but that doesn't change that I appreciate this form of your self-expression a lot 🖤
discussing kink@lis oh... that just leaves me in a quite weird position. because if even you ask that question, I guess everyone else who asks about it has their confusion justified.
in any case, I'm glad that it's something you appreciate 💙
discussing kink@kitten well not exactly, no, I know why you "do this to yourself", I know the validating feeling of reaffirming your place in small gestures in your daily life. You know how I live... It's just something that would be pretty impractical for my life^^