like, I get it's weird even in the context of kink. but is it really that complex to grasp? everyone is always like "whatβ½" and I'm like "it just made sense from the start in my mind β:neocat_melt_3:β"
discussing kink@kitten I have to admit that this is one of the few "why would you do this to yourself" things in the context of our relationship, but that doesn't change that I appreciate this form of your self-expression a lot π€
discussing kink@lis oh... that just leaves me in a quite weird position. because if even you ask that question, I guess everyone else who asks about it has their confusion justified.
in any case, I'm glad that it's something you appreciate π
discussing kink@kitten well not exactly, no, I know why you "do this to yourself", I know the validating feeling of reaffirming your place in small gestures in your daily life. You know how I live... It's just something that would be pretty impractical for my life^^