You found my personal account! If you know me from formal or irl spaces, you probably shouldn't look in here. Proceed at your own risk.
27 Clichéd transfem. Poly cuddle slut. Nonsexual little. Frequent meower. Kinky pervert. I pee myself a lot. I reject my own dignity.
I contribute code somewhere, but I forgot where.
I like to be referred to as "kitten" or "little one". You can do that if you want and it'll make me happy but it's not a requirement (also don't use the latter in adult contexts)
formerly @me@elizabeth.cat
"a pervert who lost control over their life"
Location
Europe
Birthday
1999-03-02
Pronouns
they/them (EN)
Pronounsthey/them, although fem terms are also good
kink, consent@Turi but is your character consenting to it? "indefinitely without the ability to pull out" is a difficult to consider consensual setup, and can get uncomfortable very quick
The solution really is not to speak badly about people based on their membership in minority/majority groups, but based on their behavior
I mean, yes, but that's sometimes not achievable. like, if I say "I don't seek affection with cis people anymore because it's just too risky"... it's just how it is. like, it's not "speaking badly" per se, but can still make people feel bad
trans stuffI guess the key concept that sometimes is not considered here is: you're the edge case.
you can be very nice and kind to your trans friends. but the thing is, every day, every single other person we have to interact with, makes us feel a little bit more disconnected from cis people.
I'm not even talking about those interactions involving hate or bigotry. but most of them do usually include something that will remind us how most people find it extremely difficult to empathize with us, with our lives, with our experiences.
trans stuffmaking negative comments about cis people sometimes feels bad because the few that will actually read them are probably the ones to whom they are not directed