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pathetic piss kitten @kitten@elizabeth.cat
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discussing kink and sexuality de-centering one's sexuality from orgasms makes you enjoy so much more all the other (potentially kinky) stuff
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pathetic piss kitten @kitten@elizabeth.cat
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discussing kink and sexuality, mentions physical violence some people seem to see any sexual play that doesn't involve coming as "unfinished" or "unsuccessful"

on the other hand, being able to feel just as pleased and satisfied observing the marks on your/your sub's body after a thorough beating is just so nice
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pathetic piss kitten @kitten@elizabeth.cat
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discussing kink and sexuality to be fair I went a bit to "an extreme" here with this example, but being able to just feel as satisfied after some long session of touching, licking, caressing, pounding, and whatnot, without any pressure for coming, is also so nice
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discussing kink and sexuality, mentions physical violence @kitten ...which is essentially why kink falls in the same category for me as cuddles and kisses. It's a kind of affection, it's a fun thing to do together, it's nice from a sensory and/or emotional perspective. And with very, very few exceptions, I'm just not interested in involving genitals in any of this, which is why I personally don't like to get involved in the sort of kink that centers around it, implicitly or explicitly.
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