discussing kink and sexuality, mentions physical violence
some people seem to see any sexual play that doesn't involve coming as "unfinished" or "unsuccessful"
on the other hand, being able to feel just as pleased and satisfied observing the marks on your/your sub's body after a thorough beating is just so nice
discussing kink and sexuality
to be fair I went a bit to "an extreme" here with this example, but being able to just feel as satisfied after some long session of touching, licking, caressing, pounding, and whatnot, without any pressure for coming, is also so nice